Love + Passion + Commitment = Forever

I was asked an amazing question the other day.... A guy that I WAS dating asked "Carla your the perfect wife, why not get married and just let someone take care of YOU?" You see that has always brought wonder to the people in my life.... I mean I cook amazingly, keep a gorgeous home, fantastic in the sack, put family and friends first......... Perfect Wife material. But I don't settle. You see I believe in marriage so strongly that I will never settle again.

Wanna hear a big secret? I sleep alone everynight! Yes I love having people in my home, but I don't shack up................ funny coming from a sex professional huh? I have been married before and I felt that when it fell apart I had failed....... I now know that I didn't fail the marriage did. I got married for the wrong reasons........none of them were for love. One to get out of the house, one for a man to raise my kids (thank you Robert) and the last because he made me laugh. None of these things equal FOREVER.

You asked why being a sex therapist and marriage counselor is so important to me? Because I believe in it. The family unit is the perfect creation IF maintained! I mean you get your car tuned up to last longer, then why not your marriage?

Sometimes you need to be taught to fall back in love...... and sometimes it takes an outside source! That is where I come in. I know for a fact that an amazing partner makes an amazing mate. Someone that your in awe just looking at, someone that even in sloppy pj's and toussled hair makes your heart rip out of your chest. Someone that you love to talk to, smell, taste and when you come together it isn't just amazing, it is pure beauty. The beauty that only God can create. See marriage weren't made here on Earth, they were made by God. We just took that out of his hands lately.

You see I guess that old saying, if you can't do then teach is true. I am in love, my spirit has always been in love with this person, but this Earth may not be where we are suppose to be together and I am ok with that....... I won't settle. Plus I am blessed and I have enough to keep me busy.
Carla Holland-Strange

Children

The best love that you can give a child is the love gift of your time........ Please stop with all the toys! Afew minutes of the day stop and do a chore with them, teaching starts early. Your responsible for who that child becomes, I sit here and watch my daughter in law explain things to my grandbabies and I feel comfortable wanting to go back to Vegas... See this is the FIRST time that I actually got to know my daughter in law with a genuine heart. turns out i loved her..... Before I got here I had a message that the greatest gift that a Mother can give her son is to LOVE his wife. Just another gift that I recieved along the road.

Many Blessings
Carla Holland-Strange

Shaking My head in DisBelief

How can anyone ask for acceptence when they are non-accepting? I was on meet-up today and was asked to join a meet-up group in Las Vegas, I am always ready to support a good cause.... But they REJECTED Me!!!!! LOL

It was a gay theatres group........ why invite me if your so closed minded!

I openly embrace every sexuality and lifestyle, encouraged people to be proud of who they are and I get rejected.....LMAO Here is what I responded:

Awww that is ok...... You should have read my profile. I am a STRAIGHT Activist for Gays...... I had gotten an Invite to join your group because it was about the Adult Industry, which I am the Owner of Vegas Adult Talent and Production.. but seems that BOTH sides draw that line and who will ever accept you if you don't accept them.......... Many Blessings Carla Holland-Strange

Now do you want to talk about Sex? and why so many men have to turn to hookers, escorts, massage parlors, mistresses? All of which are not a bad thing by the way, BUT there is a reason. Most guys truely love their wives and want it to work but they are so sexually frustrated that they turn into a different direction rather than have confrontation at home. You see it is easy to take the risk of "maybe" getting caught versus actually confronting someone you love saying that you need more in the bedroom. See us women go a different direction, we can hold out better than guys and alot of us don't even realize that we are doing it out of non-fullfilment.

The Average woman needs extras for an orgasm, but guys take it personally and it isn't PERSONAL it is our bodies!

Each male client that I would see, I would make sure that I had a REAL orgasm too! and believe me none of them took offence that their favorite elderly hooker got her orgasm too. It is just different when it comes to their wives. They don't see that if THEY don't get it right the wife wont go to a service they will get a lover! So guys pick up some flowers, wine, and toys